Motive behind

Whether they are burdens or not, will cause difference reactions.
It is based on perception.
If it is not burden, it will not be.
If it is, then it is.

Burdens cause people
Started to blame.
Started to be frustration.
Started to feel stress
Started want to avoid
Started the need to pretend
The force between is not attracting but repelling
It's full with unwillingness and yet have to do.
The motive behind actions become "because they are my burdens"

The motive should be
willing
ought to
would like to

It cause people
Just do, without asking for reward
Give direct response and direct reaction
Do their best
Without the need to pretend and bear with it
The force between is being attracted

Then everything become beautiful again.