Short hair

I always keep my hair short because i dislike the troublesome of spending time to take care of them. So, always had my hair cut when it started becoming too long for me.

Each time, after i had my hair cut. Some coursemate will ask "why do you have your hair cut again?" "why dont you try to keep a head of long hair?" Then, i will feel like why do people ask this kind of questions especially when people are studying psychology.

If for me, i will ask "why would you choose to have your hair cut?" instead of those questions. It is because by asking this question, i can understand what you are thinking and wat is your feeling but not suspecting your choice.

I think everyone put their own meanings to their life and what i study should be trying to understand what the meanings are. That is what so called "interpreting" which is try to read their meaning but not putting my own meaning on them. In addition, it is to bring impact for them by building from their meaning instead of trying to influence them from own opinion.

In my mind, i still think that, study psychology is to understand people no mather they are normal, abnormal, criminal or rich and poor. We need to learn to accept others' behaviour, respect the choice they made and not to have prejudice or any comment on that when communicate with them.

When they just hope people who work in psychology field can understand them and shared their feeling, but we still wear "coloured spectacle" to look at them, how would people feel then? What will be the purpose for this field to be existed in this world then?

haha. I think i am setting a high unrealistic goal again plus also tried to push other as hard as push myself. Hmm...