Monday, April 20, 2009

Taboos

Everyone has their own taboos. That is a line that no others can step on it or get across it. It is because taboo is just like a bomb that will explode in any time. The power of destruction is high and no restoration effort can be done after exploded.

I have a few taboos. The most importance is dun think that my "only" will bring miserable to you, useless and bring negative impaclt on you. It is just untolerable because that is the only that i am proud of, any negative thinking on it just cannot be accepted. My line is still quite loose which as long as your thinking doesnt influence me. Until now, there is only one person step on it and caused it exploded. Until now, the destruction effect still havent restored.

The second one is not to say something that shouldnt be said in front of public. It is fine as long as it doesnt influence me. If it influences, the kind of feeling given in that situation is just untolerable for me. Maybe it is nothing to certain kind of people, but it is not for me. There are some people step on this taboo, but it is not so destructive and the effect is still acceptable, unless the same thing keep repeated.

The third one is to keep promise. It is fine to refuse to do at first but it is not fine when a person didnt do or find excuse to escape after promised. It is like giving a person a hope and then destroy it. Hmm..

Well, there are still some other mini minor one which most are about privacy. However, seldom people will have the chance to invade and most people will respect that too.

Who will step on these taboos? Well, the absurd fact is most are those people who closer like families and friends as they have most chances.

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